My ELL partner expressed similar frustrations with her peers. B told me during my previous tutoring visit that she felt like an outsider to this tradition. "In Ghana no one celebrates Thanksgiving", she said. Furthermore, she said candidly, "I like to have break, but it is just like any other day to me and my family. I hate when people look to me like I should be sad when I am not." At that moment I realized that I may have done the same thing during dinner with Professor He.
Ultimately, what I have learned here is that the holidays and events which may be significant to me are not always significant to others and that is not necessarily a bad thing. In the future, I need to be more careful with how I relate to others in a cross-cultural setting especially as I continue in Education.
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